The Inside Out Love Story is about a life by design.
It always starts from the inside out. Even though we spend most of our lives trying to make it the other way around. Trying to make things look a certain way, so we can feel a certain way or experience the thing we’re chasing.
Ultimately, if you don’t know who you are you will never find what you’re looking for. The endless seeking will keep you lost and the desperation will exhaust you.
It's been created to help you craft a new story about yourself and your life. The one that is satisfying, and within which you are content and calm and loved and whole. It's the inside work so you can do whatever you need to do to clean up the confusion, let go of the past stuff, sort the foundations and then get on with clarifying and manifesting the life you want.
This is the foundation work for everything else. Lets just begin right here.
I had tried for so long to be her - that girl he wanted me to be, and I was doing such a great job of it, it took me a long time and lots of work to figure out - she actually wasn't me, she was a version I had created to be good for him.
So - then - this weird thing happened. I started answering some questions about myself, thinking about myself and not really thinking about him, what he needed, how I could support him, and I kind of just focussed on what would be a really good version of me. With nothing to do with him.. and this cool version of me appeared in my future vision - this kind of bohemian independent self assured extremely feminine wanderer appeared, who had her shit together. I learned about boundaries, (I teach lots of people about them.. funny that) I learned about value ( I have taught at least 100 people that too... funny that) I learned about what she was whispering in my ear all of these years - but I didn't listen. Fleur helped her turn her volume up.
As frustratingly simple as it seems, it just came down to understanding self love. And having the space to experience that, without realising I was doing that. And before I knew it I was doing that.
- Kirsten, Business Owner
I'm a purpose coach.
Which is a life coach and business coach focussed on purpose. Or magic. Or whatever it is you want to call it. For the people who want more, but have just never been able to find the time or the focus to put their finger on what exactly that is, or how exactly they can do it. And I'm mumma of 4, and step-mum of 2 and a qualified marine biologist and a writer and....well you know, there are so many things that matter and so many things that don't.
But I believe people are magnificent. And I'll do whatever I can to bring you home.
This program helped me to break my addiction to work and giving too much.
- L, Writer
If you commit to this journey you'll learn about love from the inside out:
- The empowerment of radical self-responsibility.
- The skill of crafting an intention centred in what you truly want
- Creating space (in your head, heart and life)
- Awareness of your ego and how it's been booby-trapping you
- The life-changing magic of boundaries and the incredible safety net they create
- How forgiveness and letting go sit in the foundation of personal power
- How your identity has been hidden in relationships, and also how what you hide about yourself eats you up
- Core values as a decision-making guide
- Clarify what you really, truly desire (and how it's possible to get it)
- Knowing your deal-breakers and how to stop getting what you don't want
- Finding your inner source of guidance, reconnecting to your true wisdom
- How commitment is the key to change
- Balancing giving and receiving from a place of preciousness
- The truth about vulnerability
- The power of your feminine
- A pathway forward
Frequently Asked Questions
I just wanted to share something with you about why this is worth everything to sort out.
It seems that the way I arrived (at the time and place where I realised it was time to sort this stuff out once and for all) was just that I was completely lost. The was no navigation. No path. No clear identity of the woman I really was, just a made up person living a life she thought ‘fitted’. No path. No purpose. Searching for something as tangible as mist.
You know you can’t find what you’re looking for when you don’t know what it is right?
But then you’ll only ever find out what it is by knowing all the things you don’t want and all the things that don’t work and spark that fire inside that knows there’s more. And when settling doesn’t cut it anymore and there’s too many words that haven’t been spoken (or have only been spoken in anger and haven’t been heard) and when living is more like dying and everything that you thought would work stops working. Even just a little bit.
It's time to choose living. No more settling. No more survival mode. So here it is. 12 weeks full of gems and stories and ultimately life-changing action. Come join me x